TIME TO SAY NO

                        Time To Say No

The ability to take decisions that will not in  return leave you beating up yourself is of great importance. A lot of individuals are face with the problem of "choice making". It seems easy on hearing certain decisions people set out for themselves but on the long run the nightmare of making good choices becomes teething.
  "We are responsible for the choices we make either good or bad"
The mixed feelings gotten when we say NO to people request at times put us into a state of "GUILT".
In most cases, we fail to build our self esteem. We accept every invitations that do not align with our possible goals. How long will you continue accepting YES, develop that resistance to start saying NO to just about everything that comes your way as normal.
" Normal is another word for lifeless "
Daily we say YES to unnecessary distractions, ideas etc that are not aligned with your greater purpose.
The very moment you start saying NO, you build around you a meaningful momentum.

Take Notice Of These Three(3) Things:
°BUILD YOUR MENTAL ENERGY.
°BE AN ESSENTIALISTS.
°SAY THE BIG NO.

*BUILD YOUR MENTAL ENERGY:
In developing your MENTAL energy as against time; time is a fragment of eternity.
The ideology behind these two; mental energy &  time is clearly stated that as a person you might have the time to yourself to do a lot of things that you apparently say "No" to. As you cultivate the habit to say "YES" you extract mental energy from things that are valuable to you.

*BE AN ESSENTIALISTS:
The concept about being necessary or unnecessary on certain things can either make you become essential or unessential.
The essentialists says no to almost everything. None essentialists accept yes as an option to things building hopes that their decisions might lead to something worthwhile - most times their decisions usually don't.

*SAY THE BIG NO:
Whenever we say NO, we exert focus on our energy within making it easy to transfer our effort on what seems important.
The comparison between saying YES or NO can be resolved by creating meaningful space for things that are actually worth saying yes to.